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Omokri Warns Men: Women Who Expect Immediate Funding Are Not Good Partners
Former presidential aide Reno Omokri has advised men to be cautious of women who demand financial support at the beginning of a relationship, warning that such behavior may signal a lack of genuine commitment.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Omokri, a social commentator known for his outspoken views on relationships and politics, made the remarks in a post on his social media page this week. He argued that women who expect “instant funding” from men should not be considered serious partners.
According to him, true partnership is built on patience, shared values, and long-term vision, not immediate financial gain. He urged men to pay attention to early signs of material dependence in relationships.
Red Flag in Relationships
Omokri said that while financial support can become part of a healthy relationship, men should be wary when money becomes the first demand. He stressed that love should not be measured by how quickly one partner can provide cash or gifts.
“If a woman’s first expectation in a relationship is money, then she is not in love with you. She is in love with your pocket,” Omokri wrote. “Such women are not partners. They are parasites.”
He noted that genuine relationships often start with friendship and mutual respect, rather than immediate financial expectations.
Cultural Context
The issue of money in relationships is a widely discussed topic in Nigeria and across Africa. In many communities, men are traditionally expected to provide financially for women, especially during courtship. This expectation can sometimes create pressure and misunderstandings.
Omokri’s comments add to an ongoing debate about gender roles, financial responsibility, and the definition of true partnership in modern relationships.
Relationship experts say financial expectations have become more visible with the rise of social media, where displays of wealth often influence dating standards. Some argue that such trends can harm genuine connections between couples.
Reactions From the Public
Omokri’s post has sparked mixed reactions online. Supporters praised him for speaking openly about an issue they believe causes many failed relationships.
One social media user wrote, “This is the truth men need to hear. Too many relationships are built on money instead of real love.”
Others, however, criticized the statement as unfair to women. Some argued that financial support is part of responsibility in a relationship and that men should not see it as a burden.
A woman commented, “If you want to marry, you must be ready to provide. That is how our culture works. It doesn’t mean we don’t love you.”
Broader Impact
Omokri’s message highlights a larger conversation about how relationships are changing in Nigerian society. Younger generations are increasingly challenging traditional roles, asking for more balance in financial and emotional responsibilities.
Experts note that sustainable relationships require open communication about money. Financial stress is one of the leading causes of breakups and divorce globally.
By warning men to look beyond immediate financial requests, Omokri is encouraging couples to evaluate whether their partnerships are based on mutual growth or material gain.
Looking Ahead
While the debate continues, many agree that discussions around money in relationships will remain central in Nigeria and beyond. Rising living costs and economic challenges have only intensified these conversations.
Omokri, who often uses his platform to give advice on personal development, urged men not to ignore financial red flags when choosing partners.
“A good partner is someone who wants to build with you, not someone who wants to spend from you,” he wrote.
His cautionary message may not end the debate, but it has sparked reflection on what true partnership should look like in the modern era.
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‘I Thought We Would Get Married’ – Ruggedman Opens Up On Painful Failed Relationship.
Veteran Nigerian rapper Michael Ugochukwu Stephens, popularly known as Ruggedman, has opened up about why he remains unmarried at the age of 52, attributing his marital status to the demands of his music career and the collapse of a five-year relationship.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
In an interview with The Cable, the rapper explained that he began his career during a period when Nigerian musicians had to work tirelessly to establish themselves and achieve success in the entertainment industry.
According to Ruggedman, the pressure and commitment required to build his career consumed much of his time, making it difficult for him to settle down.
He noted that some of his colleagues were fortunate to find partners who understood the demands of their profession and were willing to support them throughout their journeys.
The rapper cited fellow musician Innocent Idibia, popularly known as 2Baba, as an example of someone who found partners willing to share the challenges and experiences associated with his career. He, however, said he had not enjoyed the same luck in his relationships.
Ruggedman also disclosed that he was once involved in a five-year relationship that he believed would eventually lead to marriage. However, the relationship ended after an incident he did not reveal during the interview.
He said, “I am one of those who got into the industry back in the day where all we had was our hustle and we faced it and before you know it, time was gone. 2baba was lucky to have found partners who were ready to walk that road with him, I wasn’t that lucky. I had a five year relationship that I thought would lead to marriage but something happened and it crashed.
“Currently, I’m not in any relationship. The only thing I vowed is that I will never have a child out of wedlock. No, I don’t think it’s too late. It’s never too late. As long as you are alive, it’s never too late to get married. I am very straight.”
The rapper maintained that he does not consider himself too old to get married, insisting that marriage remains possible at any stage of life.
He also reiterated his decision not to have a child outside marriage, adding that he is currently not involved in any romantic relationship.
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‘A Huge Calamity Will Befall Me’ – Baba Ijesha Reveals Shocking Prophecy.
Nollywood actor Baba Ijesha has recounted a prophecy he received before his imprisonment, revealing that he was told he would become a great man after experiencing a devastating ordeal that would leave him in tears.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
The actor shared the experience during a courtesy visit to Yoruba Nation activist Sunday Igboho at his residence, according to reports.
Baba Ijesha explained that someone had received a revelation about his future, predicting that he would eventually achieve greatness but would first pass through a period of intense pain and hardship.
He said the prophecy came before he was sent to prison, adding that he now associates his imprisonment with the difficult experience foretold in the revelation.
“Before I went to prison, someone saw a revelation about me that I’ll be a great man but a huge calamity will befall me that’ll make me shed lots of tears before the prophesy will eventually come to pass. It was after then I went to prison,” the actor said.
His revelation comes after his release from prison in November 2025, following his conviction in a case involving the sexual assault and indecent treatment of a child.
Baba Ijesha was convicted by the Lagos State High Court on July 14, 2022, over offences involving the foster daughter of comedian Damilola Adekoya, popularly known as Princess.
The court sentenced him to five years’ imprisonment for sexual assault and three years for indecent treatment of a child. The sentences were ordered to run concurrently.
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‘I Don’t Want Money Or Contract’ – Former Texas Mayor Gives Tinubu Conditions To Stop Criticising His Govt.
Former Texas mayor Mike Arnold has written an open letter to President Bola Tinubu, outlining conditions he says must be met before he will stop criticising the Nigerian government.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Arnold disclosed the conditions in a letter published on his verified X account, according to reports.
The American lawyer said he would end his criticism of Tinubu if the President acknowledged the plight of displaced Nigerians living in at least eight camps within the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) and took urgent steps to ease their suffering.
He urged the President to provide immediate assistance to the affected families, seek support from international humanitarian organisations and ensure that displaced persons have access to adequate food, clothing, shelter, sanitation, healthcare and education for their children.
Arnold also called on the Tinubu administration to take decisive action to remove Boko Haram and other armed terrorist groups from the ancestral lands of the displaced families, allowing them to return to their homes and live in peace.
In his letter, Arnold wrote: “Acknowledge the tens of thousands of innocent displaced Nigerians, as many as 40,000 or more, living in at least eight horrific camps inside the Federal Capital Territory. Acknowledge that they exist. Acknowledge that they are suffering. Then act.
“I believe I am shaking your table far more than Reno Omokri ever dared. And I’m only getting started. I was the number one target of attack for your $9 million US lobby contract, and it only made me more popular, influential and determined.
“Do you want me to be quiet? I do not want a shambassadorial appointment. I do not want a government position, contract, favour or money.
“Do all I asked, and I will not say another word about you or the presidential election. I will step away knowing that the widows, orphans and displaced families I have fought for are finally being seen, protected and helped.
“No appointment. No payment. No personal benefit. Just mercy. Justice. Action. The choice is yours, Mr President,” Arnold stated.
The former mayor maintained that his demands were focused on humanitarian assistance and security for displaced Nigerians rather than any personal gain from the government.
He challenged Tinubu to take concrete steps to address the conditions in the camps, insisting that meeting the needs of vulnerable families would be enough to bring his criticism of the President and the 2027 presidential election to an end.
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