Crime
Experts Explain Why Domestic Violence Victims Remain Trapped in Abusive Relationships
Despite rising awareness about domestic violence, many victims remain stuck in abusive relationships. Experts say a mix of fear, financial hardship, emotional control, and social pressure often traps victims, making it difficult for them to leave their abusers.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Speaking with The Punch, family therapists and gender rights advocates said leaving an abusive relationship is never as simple as it appears from the outside.
Fear and intimidation
Psychologist Dr. Chika Obasi explained that fear is the strongest weapon abusers use to control their victims. “Most victims stay because they are afraid of what will happen if they leave,” she said. “Many abusers threaten to harm their partner, their children, or even themselves if the victim tries to go.”
According to her, victims often believe these threats and feel it is safer to stay. “Statistics show that the most dangerous time for a domestic violence victim is when they attempt to leave,” she added.
Financial dependence
Experts also pointed to economic dependence as another key reason victims remain. Gender advocate Mrs. Funmi Adewale said financial control is a common form of abuse. “Many victims cannot leave because they don’t have access to money. Their partners might stop them from working or seize their income,” she said.
Adewale noted that without financial independence, victims struggle to rent a home, feed their children, or even pay transport to a safe location. “Some abusers go as far as putting debts in their partners’ names, leaving them financially trapped,” she added.
Emotional manipulation and self-blame
Therapists say emotional abuse can be just as powerful as physical violence. Over time, victims may lose confidence and begin to blame themselves for the abuse.
“Abusers often convince victims that they caused the violence or that nobody else will love them,” explained Lagos-based counselor Bisi Ajayi. “This emotional manipulation creates what we call ‘trauma bonding’ — a strong attachment that makes the victim feel they can’t live without the abuser.”
Ajayi added that this cycle of fear and affection keeps victims in constant confusion. “After every attack, the abuser apologizes, cries, or promises to change. Victims start hoping things will get better, even though the violence continues,” she said.
Social and cultural pressure
In many communities, victims also face pressure from family, religious groups, or society to stay married no matter what.
“Some women are told to be patient and pray harder,” said human rights lawyer Tola Olatunji. “Religious and cultural beliefs sometimes discourage separation, even when lives are at risk.”
Olatunji stressed that such attitudes make victims fear judgment or shame if they leave. “They worry about being called failures or being blamed for destroying the home,” she said.
Children and ongoing danger
Experts also noted that having children can make leaving more complicated. Victims may fear losing custody or believe staying will protect their children from trauma.
Even after separation, abuse can continue. Some abusers stalk or harass their former partners to maintain control. “Leaving does not always end the violence,” Olatunji said. “That’s why many victims prefer to endure quietly.”
Support systems needed
Experts say breaking this cycle requires strong social and legal support. They called for more safe houses, financial assistance, and counseling centers across Nigeria to help victims rebuild their lives.
“Society must stop blaming victims and start protecting them,” Adewale said. “Domestic violence is not a private matter — it’s a public health and human rights issue.”
They also urged government agencies and communities to provide confidential hotlines, free legal aid, and awareness campaigns to help victims seek help safely.
“Victims don’t stay because they want to,” Ajayi said. “They stay because they feel they have no choice. Our job is to make sure they do.”
Crime
Disguised Evil: Police Nab ‘Fake Okada Rider’ Terrorizing Bauchi In Shocking Spree Of Kidnapping, Rape, And Robbery!.
The Bauchi State Police Command has apprehended a 53-year-old resident of Igbo Quarters, Bauchi, named Gambo Hassan (also known as “Anahaka”), on allegations of involvement in kidnapping, rape, armed robbery, and the unlawful possession of weapons within the Bauchi metropolis.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Operatives from the ‘B’ Division, GRA, arrested Hassan around 8:45 p.m. on September 11, 2026, during a routine patrol on Adamu Jumba Road. According to police reports, the suspect allegedly operated as a fake commercial motorcyclist during evening hours to prey on vulnerable passengers, particularly women. At the time of his arrest, he was riding a Bajaj motorcycle (registration number BAU 150G), wearing a fez cap and a black face mask, and was found in possession of a sharp knife.
Initial interrogation led the suspect to identify 15 women as victims of his alleged crimes, a number that police stated later rose to 35. Following these confessions, detectives executed a search warrant at his home and recovered numerous items believed to be proceeds of crime, including:
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15 assorted mobile phones
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3 power banks
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6 women’s wristwatches
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6 assorted native caps
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5 bundles of women’s wrappers
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3 women’s hijabs
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₦425,435 in cash, alongside Turkish and Kenyan currency notes
The suspect and all recovered exhibits have been moved to the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID) in Bauchi for further investigation and prosecution.
State Commissioner of Police Sani-Omolori Aliyu praised the officers for their vigilance, while the command’s spokesperson, SP Nafiu Habib, encouraged anyone who may have fallen victim to the suspect to come forward with information to support the ongoing investigation.
Crime
CRIME TSUNAMI: Kidnappers Pocket A Staggering ₦7.7 Billion Across The Country In Mind-Blowing Report!.
A report by SBM Intelligence titled Economics of Nigeria’s Kidnap Industry 2026 reveals that kidnappers across Nigeria amassed a staggering ₦7.779 billion in ransoms between July 2025 and June 2026, which accounts for 34 percent of the total ₦22.856 billion demanded during that timeframe. Although total demands decreased from the previous cycle’s ₦48 billion (which was inflated by a massive ₦30 billion demand in Delta State), the proportion of actual ransom collected surged dramatically compared to the prior period’s 5.35 percent. This year’s record payments were heavily propelled by large-scale mass abductions capable of holding hundreds of victims under intense pressure.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Terrorist and insurgent factions dominated the collections, with the JAS faction and its affiliates raking in roughly ₦7 billion—accounting for about 90 percent of nationwide ransom payouts. This total was driven primarily by two massive incidents:
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A ₦5 billion ransom reportedly paid following the April 2026 abduction of 416 people in Ngoshe, Borno State, led by commander Ali Ngulde, marking the largest single ransom payment in SBM’s database.
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An estimated ₦2 billion payout following the November 2025 kidnapping of 315 pupils and staff members from St Mary’s School in Papiri, Niger State.
Beyond these major terrorist-linked factions, unaffiliated kidnappers and bandits collected ₦719.4 million (about nine percent of total payments), while the Islamic State West Africa Province (ISWAP) secured ₦53 million.
Geographically, Kwara State registered the highest ransom demands at ₦7.375 billion (32.3 percent of the national total, largely driven by a ₦3.52 billion demand linked to Boko Haram activity around Woro and Wawa), followed by Borno at ₦5.698 billion and Kaduna at ₦1.459 billion. However, when looking at actual payouts, Borno led the country with ₦5.0545 billion collected, trailed by Niger (₦2 billion), Kwara (₦278.3 million), Kaduna (₦64 million), and Sokoto (₦58 million), with these five states alone accounting for 95.8 percent of nationwide ransom collections. Conversely, states like Kebbi, Abia, Akwa Ibom, Sokoto, and Imo saw much lower demands, and minimal payouts—such as ₦70,000 in Cross River or ₦100,000 in Bauchi—often represented token settlements or arrangements finalized with supplies and food rather than large cash sums.
Crime
BETRAYAL OF TRUST: Man Given Free Shelter Allegedly Sells Benefactor’s House And Scams Cleric Of ₦13.6 Million.
The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) has arraigned Yusuf Oyepeju before the Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan. Oyepeju appeared alongside two corporate entities—Alwajeez International Nigeria Limited and AIN Homes and Property Limited—to face a six-count charge encompassing forgery, document uttering, theft by conversion, and obtaining money under false pretenses.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
According to a statement released in Ibadan on Wednesday by EFCC’s Head of Media and Publicity, Dele Oyewale, the case stems from a relationship that began on an Islamic WhatsApp educational platform where both Oyepeju and the victim, Fasasi Bayonle, served as tutors. Bayonle, an Islamic cleric based in Dubai, eventually fell victim to a severe betrayal of trust.
From Benefactor to Alleged Victim
Investigations revealed that the saga began in 2018 when Oyepeju approached Bayonle seeking financial assistance for accommodation after getting married. Rather than a cash handout, Bayonle permitted Oyepeju to temporarily move into his vacant property located at the Ikumapayi area of Olodo, Ibadan, before relocating to the UAE.
Authorities stated that Oyepeju, posing as a property developer, subsequently convinced Bayonle to fund land purchases and housing construction projects in Ibadan, transferring a total of ₦8,697,900 between February and August 2020. However, the arrangement turned sour when Oyepeju allegedly forged a “Transfer of Agreement,” sold the very house he was given to live in for free to companies linked to him, and converted the proceeds. Investigators also discovered that he never purchased or developed the promised land.
Court Proceedings and Remand
Appearing before Justice Olusola Adetujoye, Oyepeju pleaded not guilty to all charges. Following his plea, prosecuting counsel Sanusi Galadanchi requested a trial date and asked that the defendant be remanded. Meanwhile, defense counsel B. Ajibola informed the court that a bail application had already been filed and served.
Justice Adetujoye adjourned the proceedings for the hearing of the bail application and ordered that Oyepeju be remanded at the Agodi Correctional Centre, Ibadan, pending the next court date.
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