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Hidden Abuse: Nigerian Men Suffer In Silence Behind Closed Doors.
Behind closed doors, some Nigerian men endure violence, fear, and silence in intimate relationships society assumes they control. According to Nivo News, male survivors of domestic abuse often face stigma, cultural expectations, and weak support systems that prevent them from speaking out. Unaddressed abuse can escalate into severe outcomes, including fatal attacks by intimate partners.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Rotimi Akinjide, 39, a Lagos-based logistics worker, shared how his seemingly ordinary marriage turned violent. His wife, Rebecca, reportedly subjected him to repeated physical assaults over minor disputes, including arguments over WhatsApp posts. Neighbours intervened during one particularly intense confrontation that left their home in disarray, but the abuse persisted. Despite bruises and threats, Rotimi avoided leaving, citing social respectability and his community role.
Similarly, 25-year-old Sola Alade recounted a harrowing relationship with a former girlfriend who monitored his communications obsessively, escalating to physical attacks over perceived infidelity. Alade described how the psychological and emotional toll of the abuse persisted long after the relationship ended, highlighting the lasting impact of intimate partner violence on men.
Experts say men often face barriers to reporting abuse due to societal beliefs that men should be strong and impervious to pain. Gender norms, patriarchal conditioning, and religious pressures further silence male victims, leaving them vulnerable to emotional, psychological, and physical harm. Data from Lagos State indicates that male survivors accounted for hundreds of domestic violence cases between November 2024 and November 2025, though national statistics remain limited due to underreporting.
Some cases have escalated to androcide. In Okene, Kogi State, a woman allegedly killed her husband following a dispute over his taking a second wife. Similarly, Ondo State police confirmed the death of a man after a heated argument with his girlfriend turned fatal. Experts warn that unresolved domestic abuse can spiral into extreme violence when victims or perpetrators reach a breaking point.
Legal protections for male survivors in Nigeria remain weak. While the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act exists, many states have not domesticated it, and law enforcement agencies often dismiss complaints by men, framing them as jokes or “family matters.” Psychologists emphasize that men should feel safe reporting abuse, seek help, and prioritize their safety and well-being. Gender specialists highlight that domestic violence is not gender-exclusive, and male survivors require access to support, advocacy, and protection.
Nigeria Customs Service (NCS) has recorded a historic breakthrough with the emergence of its first female pilot, Superintendent of Customs Nafisat Balogun, who recently earned a commercial multi-engine pilot licence in the United States.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
The achievement was celebrated by the Nigeria Customs Technical Hangar Service, marking a significant step in the agency’s drive to strengthen its aviation capacity for surveillance, logistics, and anti-smuggling operations.
At a ceremony attended by senior officers, the Managing Director of the Customs Technical Hangar Service, retired Comptroller of Customs Capt. Kuhi Mbaya, described the development as a landmark moment for the service.
He said Balogun’s transition from cabin crew to certified commercial pilot represents a major breakthrough for the Customs aviation unit and highlights the agency’s commitment to professional growth and inclusivity.
He added that the milestone reflects expanding opportunities within the Service as it continues to integrate air assets into its enforcement and border monitoring operations.
Balogun expressed gratitude for the support she received, noting that her journey required dedication and resilience, while pledging to apply her new skills in advancing the Customs mandate with professionalism and discipline.
The development has been widely described within the Service as an inspiration for greater female participation in technical and specialised roles.
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Osun 2026: APC Candidate Oyebamiji Pledges Inclusive Governance For Non-Indigenes, Interest Groups.
The All Progressives Congress (APC) governorship candidate in Osun State, Asiwaju Bola Oyebamiji (AMBO), has pledged to ensure inclusive governance by integrating non-indigenes and various interest groups if elected in the August 15, 2026 governorship election.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
He said his administration would operate a structured system that promotes participation and representation of all segments of society in governance.
The pledge was conveyed by a former lawmaker and ex-Special Adviser on Civic Engagement, Hon. Olatunbosun Oyintiloye, after he represented the candidate at an engagement with members of the Arewa community in Ibokun, Obokun Local Government Area.
Oyintiloye said the plan is aimed at strengthening the link between government and grassroots communities, ensuring public policies reflect citizens’ real needs.
He added that all groups would be actively involved in both policy formulation and implementation to drive development in the state.
Oyebamiji also promised continued engagement with farmers, traders, artisans, and non-indigene communities as key stakeholders in governance.
Responding, leaders of the Arewa community commended past inclusion efforts and pledged support for the APC candidate ahead of the election.
Barely a year after its inauguration in Akwa Ibom State, the African Democratic Congress (ADC) has been plunged into a deep factional crisis.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶
Multiple factions are now locked in a struggle for control of the party, leaving members uncertain about the legitimate leadership structure.
One faction is led by John Akpanudodehe, a former National Secretary of the All Progressives Congress (APC), while another is headed by the embattled state chairman, Dick Duke.
Although the leader of a third faction could not be immediately confirmed, findings indicate that another group also exists within the party.
Sources further suggest that the Akpanudodehe-led faction is seeking to remove the current chairman through a recently held congress that has sparked controversy.
In response, Dick Duke convened a stakeholders’ meeting over the weekend, where he rejected the legitimacy of the said congress.
He said the party had formally written to the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to distance itself from the exercise, citing a subsisting court order.
According to him, his tenure as state chairman is still valid until May, and any congress conducted before then would be unlawful.
Duke added that the party would only proceed with proper congresses after the expiration of his tenure and the resolution of legal issues, in line with due process.
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