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Dancer Kaffy Opens Up: Rejected For Being A Single Mum Of Two

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Nigerian dancer and choreographer Kafayat Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, has opened up about the challenges she faces in dating as a divorced mother of two. Speaking on The Honest Bunch podcast, she revealed that some men struggle to accept single mothers as partners.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

Kaffy recounted an instance where a man explicitly told her he could not date her because she already had children. She questioned why divorced women are often overlooked in romantic relationships, stressing that they could, in fact, make stronger partners if they have invested in personal growth following a separation.

She argued that divorce should not automatically disqualify someone from love or marriage, noting that even unions between two single people are not guaranteed to last. Kaffy said, “I have had someone tell me because I am a single mother he cannot think about dating me because I have two children. What makes you think a woman that has been divorced is not even the better candidate if she has worked on herself? What is the guarantee that two single people today are not going to be divorced people tomorrow? So why are people feeling like ‘No, I need to marry him fresh and I need to marry her fresh?’ Both of you are going into the same data that the world has computed for you—that over 70% of marriages crash. You are part of the 70%.”

The dancer also shared her perspective on love, suggesting that the widely described “butterflies in the stomach” sensation may actually be linked to anxiety. She emphasized that genuine love should bring peace of mind rather than feelings of restlessness.

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‘Tinubu Means Well For Nigerians’ – Information Minister Appeals For More Time.

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Nigeria’s Minister of Information and National Orientation, Mohammed Idris, has urged Nigerians to give President Bola Tinubu more time to address the country’s economic challenges by voting for him again in the 2027 general elections.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

Idris acknowledged that many citizens were facing severe economic difficulties, including the rising cost of living, poverty and hunger. However, he maintained that the positive effects of the Tinubu administration’s economic reforms would take time to become evident in the lives of ordinary Nigerians.

The minister made the appeal on Thursday during the flag-off of the All Progressives Congress (APC) 2027 presidential and governorship campaigns at the Minna Trade Fair Complex in Niger State, Naija News reports.

He urged Nigerians not to lose faith in the administration, insisting that Tinubu had the country’s best interests at heart and deserved another opportunity to complete the policies and programmes he had initiated.

“I appeal for the understanding of Nigerians. President Bola Tinubu means well for Nigerians. Let’s give him more time to complete the good things he has already started,” Idris said.

The minister also appealed to residents of Niger State to support Governor Mohammed Bago’s re-election campaign, citing what he described as the governor’s achievements over the past four years.

Idris further called on voters to support APC candidates across all elective positions in the 2027 elections, arguing that the party’s policies would deliver greater benefits to Nigerians.

Speaking at the campaign launch, Governor Bago pledged to secure all the votes in Niger State for Tinubu and other APC candidates.

He expressed confidence in the party’s chances in the state, assuring residents that a second term in office would bring additional benefits.

Bago also urged the electorate to vote for APC candidates in the presidential, governorship, senatorial and House of Representatives elections.

Prominent figures at the campaign flag-off included APC North-Central Zonal Vice-Chairman, Mu’azu Rijau, who represented the party’s National Chairman, Prof. Nentawe Yilwatda.

Also in attendance were former Nigerian Ambassador to South Africa, Abdullahi Idris, and former Niger State Deputy Governor, Ahmed Musa Ibeto.

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“Pay Before I Reply” – Bovi Reveals He Now Charges Money To Respond To Messages

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Nigerian comedian and actor Bovi Ugboma has announced that he will begin charging people who expect him to respond to their messages.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

News reports that the comedian disclosed this in a post shared on his Instagram Story.

According to Bovi, anyone seeking a response from him should be ready to pay for the service.

He also warned those who might not receive replies to make the necessary payment if they want his attention.

The comedian wrote, “Now charging money to reply messages. So if you don’t get a reply, pay up!”

In other news, Bovi has opened up about his experience raising his son, revealing that the boy broke three television sets on separate occasions due to his behaviour.

Naija News reports that the comedian had previously stated that he does not believe in beating children as a form of discipline.

He maintained that parents should allow their children to grow and learn while providing proper guidance.

Bovi explained that his son sometimes broke household items when he was angry or simply out of playfulness, including three television sets in their home.

The comedian added that he was able to replace the damaged televisions because he could afford to do so, noting that the situation might have been different if he lacked the financial means.

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“Drop Your Pride And Grow Up” – Don Jazzy Blasts Musicians Rejecting Collaborations

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Nigerian music producer Michael Collins Ajereh, popularly known as Don Jazzy, has urged Nigerian musicians to set aside their pride and embrace collaborations to encourage the growth of the country’s music industry.....KINDLY READ THE FULL STORY HERE▶

The Mavin Records founder expressed concern over what he described as a decline in collaborations among Nigerian artistes, warning that the trend could negatively affect the entertainment industry.

Naija News reports that Don Jazzy made his position known during an appearance on an episode of the On The Grind podcast.

He stressed that no artiste could achieve everything independently, noting that collaborations create opportunities for learning, creativity and professional growth.

The music executive encouraged Nigerian singers to overcome their egos and recognise that their individual talents should not prevent them from working with others.

According to him, even artistes who can write, produce and perform their own songs still need to collaborate with other talents.

He said: “Most of Nigerian artists need to drop their pride, grow up and understand that no man is an island. A tree cannot make a forest.

“If you are so talented and versatile and can write, produce and sing, kudos to you. But still, you need to collaborate. I am a fan of collaboration. I came into this business collaborating with people and I am forever going to keep collaborating. I understand the importance of collaboration.”

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